(The New Leaders) Conversations EQ Cards "Let's get another drink?" for couple (based on EQ)
Picture this: a dimly lit room, the clink of glasses, and the warmth of shared company. It's the perfect setting for deep conversations and genuine connection. "Let's Get Another Drink?" isn't just a card game, it's an invitation to embark on a journey of rediscovery and intimacy, fostering a deeper understanding of your partner or loved one through the lens of emotional intelligence (EQ).
Delve into the Depths of Your Relationship:
This isn't your ordinary card game. "Let's Get Another Drink?" is a curated collection of 80 thought-provoking questions, meticulously crafted based on Harvard's renowned EQ communication framework and extensive research on enhancing intimacy in relationships.
These questions are divided into three distinct levels:
- Sparkling: Like the effervescence of champagne, these questions create a light and playful atmosphere to kickstart your conversation. They delve into shared interests, hobbies, and experiences, sparking laughter and joy while gently warming up your hearts for deeper exploration.
- Red Wine: As you sip on your favorite red wine, the conversation takes a more profound turn. These questions delve into values, beliefs, and aspirations, unraveling the core of who you are as individuals and as a couple. It's a chance to understand each other's motivations, dreams, and fears, fostering a deeper appreciation for your unique perspectives.
- On the Rocks: Like a well-aged whiskey, these questions invite you to embrace vulnerability and authenticity. They delve into past experiences, emotional scars, and hidden desires, allowing you to connect on a soul level. It's a space where you can truly see and be seen by your partner, fostering a profound sense of trust and intimacy.
More Than Just Questions:
"Let's Get Another Drink?" goes beyond mere conversation starters. It includes:
- 10 Love Action Cards: Recognizing that love is not just about words, these cards prompt you to express your affection through meaningful gestures and actions. They encourage physical touch, acts of service, and heartfelt expressions of appreciation, strengthening your emotional bond.
- 10 Love Coupons Cards: These playful coupons provide a creative outlet to show your love and commitment. Fill them with promises of future dates, special treats, or sweet messages that will make your partner's heart flutter.
What make the drinks on this deck menu special?
- The EQ leadership & communication framework from Harvard Kennedy School.
- Emotional Intelligence (EQ) principles from Harvard Business Review.
- Jakubiak, B. K. and Feeney, B. C. (2019) Hand-in-hand combat: Affectionate touch promotes relational well-being and buffers stress during conflict. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 45(3), 431–446.
- Dew, J. and Bradford Wilcox, W. (2013) Generosity and the Maintenance of Marital Quality. Journal of Marriage and Family, 75(5), 1218-1228.
"Let's get another drink?" is for:
- Couples with a lot on their minds, unsure where to begin sharing with each other.
- Couples wants to understand each other deeply to align on future plans together.
- Couples want to rekindle the flames of their love.
- New couples want to get to know each other better.
Why "Let's Get Another Drink?" is a Game-Changer:
- Scientifically Grounded: The questions in this deck are based on extensive research in emotional intelligence and relationship psychology, ensuring that your conversations are both enjoyable and meaningful.
- Perfect for any stage: "Let's Get Another Drink?" is perfect for couples at any stage of their relationship – whether you're just starting out and want to build intimacy or you've been together for years and want to reignite the spark, this game will bring you closer and deepen your connection.
- Fun and Engaging: The lightheartedness of the "Sparkling" level creates a safe space for vulnerability, making it easier to explore deeper emotions as you progress through the levels.
- Fosters Intimacy: By encouraging open communication, active listening, and vulnerability, this game creates a platform for you and your partner to truly see and understand each other on a deeper level.
How to Ignite the Spark:
Set the Mood:
- Find a cozy and intimate space where you both feel comfortable and relaxed.
- Dim the lights, light some candles, or play some soothing music to create a romantic atmosphere.
Choose Your Level:
- Sparkling: Start with the "Sparkling" questions to break the ice and set a lighthearted tone for your conversation.
- Red Wine: Move on to the "Red Wine" questions when you're ready to delve deeper into each other's thoughts and feelings.
- On the Rocks: Finally, explore the "On the Rocks" questions for more intimate and personal conversations.
Draw a Question:
- Take turns drawing a card from the deck.
- Read the question, either to yourself or to your partner.
- Some questions will have a "Love Action" note. If you draw one of these questions, draw a card from the Love Action deck and follow its instructions before answering the question.
Fill in the Love Coupons: Use the Love Coupons to write down fun and creative date ideas for future use. This is a great way to keep the spark alive in your relationship.
Enjoy the Conversation!
Most importantly, relax, be open and honest with each other, and have fun exploring your relationship on a deeper level.
