This non-fiction book by Dr. Bruce D. Perry (with Maia Szalavitz) explores how childhood trauma affects the developing brain and behavior. Through real clinical cases—including the story of a boy raised in extreme neglect—the author shows how abuse, violence, and lack of emotional care can shape a child’s emotions, learning, and relationships.
The book explains that children’s brains develop in stages, and trauma disrupts this process. Healing, therefore, must also follow a step-by-step approach based on safety, trust, and consistent care—not punishment. Dr. Perry emphasizes that with patience, understanding, and the right support, even deeply traumatized children can recover and build healthy lives.
Key message:
Trauma changes children, but it does not define them forever. Compassion, stability, and informed care can help the brain heal.